At Home

Half Furnished

Before moving in with Ms. 3013 I lived with my brother for a good number of years. We shared a small apartment together and enjoyed the many terrific benefits of its location. Neither of us however, spent much time thinking about what the apartment looked like.

We were minimalist at best and for all the years together, we never had so much as a single piece of art or decoration hanging on any of our walls.

We rarely arranged anything outside of practicality, and never once thought about customizing a piece of furniture. Feng shui we were not.

As I get older I find myself being drawn more towards the comfort, style and design of our home. For the past year or so, Ms. 3013 and I have spent a lot of time finding the right pieces to fit into our townhouse- something I hadn’t previously done before.

It’s not an easy task and often you can fall into the trap of the impatient, impulse action of decorating your entire house at once.

The IKEA-izing of your house is a tempting venture. Shop, swipe, assemble. But anyone with IKEA experience will know that while there are many benefits of the store, living in one is far from homely.

Where do you start when you want to decorate YOUR home?

For us, we started with the big essentials, the can’t do withouts; the beds and the couches. We started looking at beds and couches at IKEA but found them terribly uncomfortable- the one quality neither can afford to be.


We found Snooze’s bedMATCH feature to be a good tool to use. You really can’t tell how you’ll like a bed by sleeping in it for 5 minutes, so this tool really helped match our bodies and sleeping patterns to the most suited bed.

Spend money on your bed; I cannot reiterate this enough! You’ll spend most of your life in one and there is no sense to go cheap. A relaxing night’s sleep will do wonders for your everyday life and I’d recommend spending no less than $1000 on the best bed you can afford.



Like your bed, your couch needs to be inviting and comfortable. Don’t spend less on a discount couch and instead, think of it as investing in your body’s long term comfort and well-being.

We took the next best option outside of purchasing a luxurious $6000 couch from places like Dare Gallery. We got one second hand. For about $1500, we found Dare’s Spacey 6-seat modular lounge to be the perfect fit. It’s an incredible piece of sofa-mechanics that you will really only discover once you sit/lie/sleep in one.


One of the most personal touches you can give your house is by infusing your walls with your personality. As renters, we do not have the option to paint or change colours, but we do have the option to give the walls a new temporary look.

When it comes to hanging up paintings or photographs, avoiding a singular motif or look is essential in avoiding that ‘staged’ look. You’ll find plenty of tacky, easy to buy pieces at your local Target, but if you spend a little time and money on personality, then you’re bound to find the right art for your home.

We decided to piece together the walls over time- one painting at a time, one print at a time. We cringed at the thought of having a house look like a catalogue, so our thinking is that in time, we’ll get the cosy, warm and inviting home we want.

You can find personalized prints from various locations, but we’re liking Etsy for its vast array of designs and artists. Speaking locally, Ms 3013 and I are big fans of Esther Frieda whose work can be found on our walls. Alternatively, for those looking for offbeat cityscapes and movie-themed modernity, I’d recommend checking out Calm The Ham.


The rest of the house needs the same kind of patient approach. We are filling the house piece by piece and found that when you mix and match you’ll get a house with a bit more character. Buy a coffee table from Gumtree, buy a dresser drawer from IKEA (the good ones), find your dream lights from Bunnings- it’s all about taking the time to find what’s right.

Don’t forget if you’re feeling ambitious to try and customize a piece of furniture to suit your needs. We did it for our Bar cart but you can do it for just about anything!

The great thing about your home is that it doesn’t need to be finished now. Furnishing your home comes down to patience and personality. Like your life, it’s perpetually unfinished, but tuneable. Spend a little bit of money on the things that’ll give you the most of being at home, but take your time to find them. The best things they say…

At Home

Your Home Town Tavern

There are few things more appropriate for the home than your own bar. It is a place for reflection, celebration, and the occasional loosening of the edge. One of the advantages of a home bar is that they can come in almost any shape or size, any colour or style, leaving you with plenty of options to decorate, customize, and adorn with your favourite bottles of liquor.

On a recent trip to Canada, I came across two very different kinds of home bars. The first was a very compact, simple table top bar that was both elegant and defining. A silver crested tray that displayed a few bottles of expensive whiskey, a decanter, crystal glasses and an ice bucket. It’s what one would expect from an upper class home of subdued elegance. The other was your traditional man-cave bar setup, complete with hanging glass rack, bottles of college party fuel and a presence and style that screams “I’m here to party”.

Both can be good for your home and depending on the kind of space and layout, you can easily see which one suits your abode best. Each has their own way of saying “let’s have a drink”, the ultimate end result and the most important reason for having one.

When Ms. 3013 and I decided on having our own home bar we looked at the various options available in Melbourne. While we do not have the means to build a traditional looking bar, we thought that perhaps a simple table top lacked the kind of character that suited us both. We shopped around and found that you can find many pre-made bars that while serviceable, lack the personal options of wild colours and customized finishing. It wasn’t for us.

What can you do when you’re stuck between a limited budget and the desire for something more than straight forward?

You look around the house to see what you have.

What we did have was an abundance of unused IKEA hardware- in this case, two Forhoja trolleys. We liked their look and their compartments, and most of all, their size. Compact enough to fit into small living room areas, but large enough that you could find space for wine glasses, wine bottles, liquor, and a bit of personalized decoration.

Their price tag and Swedish construction meant that we could easily customize the trolley to a design and colour we liked to boot.

The first thing we had to do was pick a colour- something that pops- and after some browsing (ME: How about this one? HER: No.), we picked a pink-streaked orange that not only stands out in any living room, but suits just about any liquor palette one may have.

Dismantling IKEA furniture is a lot less painful than putting them together but we wanted to reassemble the finished work, so having a large and flexible working space is important. We did most of the work outside as sanding, priming, and painting indoors is best done in limited amounts. Sanding and priming the dismantled trolley is a step best taken with care as it makes a big difference in the finished look.

Good primer and paint takes significant time to dry, so plan your painting so that coats on different sides can be done all at once. After your desired layers of paint are completed, and your trolley has been put back together, you can think about additional features you’d like to add and just what you’d like your bar trolley to stock. We wanted some place to put our wine glasses and took inspiration from our friend’s man-cave bar and chose some simple hanging racks we installed under the trolley. Inexpensive, looks good, and for some reason, hanging wine glasses always makes a bar look a lot more appealing to the senses.


The next step after you’ve put your glorious new bar trolley together is to stock it with the most inviting bottles of liquor you can. The choices are infinite, but class is not. So avoid the cheap stuff and get your bar the kind of liquor your hard work deserves.

I’m a whiskey guy and Ms.3013 is partial to gin, so our first two choices were Royal Salute and Hendrick’s. You can’t go wrong with one or two of the high end bottles to help solidify your taste. It gives whoever happens across your bar the sense that you’re not only willing to go far to create something at home, but you take stock in having the best.

So how do you go about stocking your bar?

While it’s certainly fun to visit your local alcohol apothecary, there’s one better way to plenish your bar AND show it off; a stock the bar party.

It’s exactly what we did.


You’ve got to be confident when you throw such a fete. It’s not always easy to throw a party then ask its attendees to bring the fun, but there are a few ways to make sure it all goes according to plan.

It’s important to be clear about the party’s reason and to let your friends know how much work and effort you’ve put into creating the bar. It’s not about getting free alcohol (okay, it is a little), but more about coming together to celebrate good friends, a good home and yes, a toast to it all.

While it’s great to receive, it is also vital to provide. In this case, giving your guests some basic drinks on the house, like beer, soft drinks, and food, is a key part to any successful party. Sure, they’ll be bringing some great bottles of liquor, but what says great service more than being welcomed with a cold beer and some food? Trust me, they’ll remember it. We also provided a signature cocktail for guests to have, an option as easy as picking an interesting concoction online. We chose something summery and provided clear instructions on how to make it themselves and the necessary ingredients. What we got was a simple, but engaging way for guests to interact with each other, and our new bar.

Our friends have impeccable taste as some of the wine and liquor we received were not only of high quality, but were perfect additional to any home bar with a bit of class. The party was a success and is a great way to not only introduce your newly minted craftsmanship, but your home as well. The bar is now a focal point of our living room and it can easily do the same for you. Having a home bar can be a small but significant DIY project, one that can brighten and bring a space to life. Most rewarding of all is that you’ll have a place where everyone knows your name, right at home.


The finished product